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Making and sharing budgets as a community practice

Posted: January 5 2012

Tonight we’ll be doing our annual budget share at our Tribe gathering. Over the past couple of years when we’ve done budget sharing, we’ve realized that this practice is more than just being vulnerable about the numbers– its really about sharing our hopes and dreams for the life of love and service God has for us– and the resources we need to live into that vision.Our hope is that by sharing our life  and financial goals, we can better understand, support and pray for the provisions we each need.

As we’ve done this practice over the years, it became clear that seeking the way of Jesus with our resources requires a different prescription for each of us. Some of us have needed to curb our spending and deal with debts or consumptive habits. Some of us have needed financial help and prayer for better-paying work. And some of us have needed to get more creative and daring about spending the resources God had given us.

Here’s an exercise we’ve used to connect financial planning with our deeper values:

FINANCIAL PLANNING:

Simplicity is aligning your resources (time, money, possessions, talents) with what matters most. Having clear life goals will help you make better decisions about what you earn and spend.

What are your current top 3-5 general life goals?

1. _____________________________________________________________

2. _____________________________________________________________

3. _____________________________________________________________

4. _____________________________________________________________

5. _____________________________________________________________

What kind of time, money and resources are needed to fulfill these goals? Think through your longer term financial goals.

Examples:

      • A down payment to eventually purchase an apartment/home.
      • Transition to a new career or lifestyle change (that might pay less or require more risk, but seems more fulfilling).
      • Freedom from financial/work obligation to take time for service or travel.
      • Preparing for a future event: a wedding, children’s college, a special trip, lower earning/retirement)
      • Creating a “means of production” (i.e. An income generating business or investment)
      • An amount of money or a resource you would like to share and bless others with.

1. _____________________________________________________________

2. _____________________________________________________________

3. _____________________________________________________________

4. _____________________________________________________________

5. _____________________________________________________________

Think through your top 3-5 immediate/ short-term financial goals:

Examples:

      • Reduce and eliminate consumer debts or pay off school loans.
      • Save for upcoming fixed expenses (car maintenance/ new car, medical & dental work,home repairs)
      • Set aside a reserve amount in case of emergency/ job loss. (two months salary suggested)
      • Save for schooling, travel or sabbatical you would like to take.

1. _____________________________________________________________

2. _____________________________________________________________

3. _____________________________________________________________

4. _____________________________________________________________

5. _____________________________________________________________

BENEFITS OF USING A MONTHLY BUDGET:

1. A budget can help you live more reflectively and less reflexively—reigning in the chaos of your time and finances.

2. Budgeting is a spiritual discipline akin to prayer, study, silence and solitude that is related to the practice of simplicity. How you deal with money determines, to a great extent, how you will live your life.

3. You will have a realistic assessment of your true financial situation.

4. You will be able to clearly identify where your money is going and where you should allocate differently—a logic approach to determine what you should save and when you can spend AND what to pray for and when to work more or find a better job.

5. You will have less anxiety about money because you will know what you can and can’t spend.

6. You can see clearly how God is providing for your financial needs.

7. You will have greater clarity about what you need to trust God to provide for you.

8. You will have greater financial & vocational freedom because you will know the minimum amount you need to live.

9. You will be empowered to be more generous and intentional about charitable giving.

BASIC TOOLS FOR BUDGETING:

1. List your current estimated income.

2. List your current expenses—first basic necessities & liabilities then discretionary options

3. Compare projected expense with estimated income.

4. Assess whether spending in specific areas should be reduced.

5. If spending and earning still do not match, brainstorm ways to simplify, eliminating discretionary expenses and conserve spending.

6. Asses whether debts can be paid off more rapidly with decreased spending in discretionary areas.

7. Plan and allocate for upcoming expenses.

TOOLS FOR TRACKING YOUR BUDGET AND SPENDING:

1. Track your monthly earning and spending using Quicken, Mint or a simple spreadsheet that tracks your spending according to your established budget.

2. Decide how you will track and pay for each category of your budgeted expenses.

• With draw cash for specific budget categories (food, entertainment, allowance)

• Use Credit/Debit card only for certain predictable expenses (gas, travel, on-line)

• Pay regular bills with a personal check or online bill pay (giving, rent/mortgage, utilities, etc)

3. Pay credit cards off at the end of each month and put your bills on auto payment.

4. Have a place where you keep financial files and a regular time each month when you pay your bills and pay your bills on time.

5. Resists and restrain yourself from spending money that is not in your budget.

6. Stop spending when you have reached your monthly budget maximum.

7. Delay gratification and save toward desired purchases.

Come help celebrate the release of my new book

Posted: May 31 2011

Friday June 17th 7-9 P.M.San Francisco

See eventbrite page for further details.

I’ve partnered with Intervarsity Press to create this exciting resource that combines the best of contemporary kingdom theology with practical applications for individuals and groups. The book is full of tangible exercises and real life stories about people taking risks to Practice The Way of Jesus.

This release event will honor and celebrate each person who has collaborated and participated in ReIMAGINE’s Learning Lab Experiments over the past 6 years. Many of the “characters” from the book will be on hand and several will share stories about their experiences. I’lll do a short reading and a series of book inspired films will be screened. Twenty-Five free copies of of the new book will be given away — but you have to be present to win.

Drinks and cocktail snacks will provided.

The book will be available for purchase at the special pre-release price of $10.

Go to www.Jesusdojo.com for more information about Practicing The Way of Jesus

R.S.V.P.’s appreciated.

Note: Street parking extremely limited. Public transportation advised. Event is located 4 blocks from 16th/Mission Bart station.

New JesusDojo.com Website Launched

Posted: May 31 2011

I’ve been working on a website to promote my new book, Practicing the Way of Jesus and to launch the Jesus Dojo Campaign. Check out Jesusdojo.com Huge thanks to my brother-in-law Dave Laird for his support as web developer.

Learning To Fly

Posted: May 31 2011

The article originally published in CONSP!RE Magazine. Spring 2011

When I was nineteen, I quit college with the lofty goal of resisting the pull of American materialism to embark on the adventure of seeking God’s justice and compassion. I married my girlfriend, and we relocated to an iron-mining region in northern Minnesota, to work with at-risk kids and families. The mines had recently shut down, resulting in 85 percent unemployment and escalating rates of alcoholism, wife battering, and child sexual abuse. Anyone who could had moved out of the region to look for work.

We quickly set up faith-based children’s clubs in public housing projects and shanty towns and enjoyed becoming friends with many of the struggling families. Neglected kids would wander over to our apartment for meals four or five nights a week, even in sub-zero weather. Families in crisis confided in us and we often sat in their smoke-filled apartments talking and drinking coffee past 1 a.m.

I had what I now term “sophomoric compassion”–emotionally overwhelmed by the stories I carried, though not wise or equipped enough yet to actually be very helpful. At the same time, the intoxication of being vital and needed propelled me like a drug addiction.

Evelyn Paulson, a saint in her late seventies with whom we prayed weekly, warned me: “Slow down! The problems of the people you are working with didn’t develop overnight and they won’t be solved in a day. You need to learn to rest and pace yourself, or you’ll burn out in five years.”

That winter, my wife Lisa’s father died suddenly. Returning from the funeral we resumed our work. A family with six kids from the housing projects wanted to show their appreciation for our friendship by a special meal they splurged to buy with food stamps. Late in the afternoon on the day of the feast, Lisa became overwhelmed by the dark ache of grief that often comes weeks afterwards. I was torn. Lisa was in no shape to be with this family, but I also knew how disheartened they would be if we canceled. It had taken time to build their trust. Reluctantly I called to say that we couldn’t come. I knew we’d made the right choice because Lisa, stricken with grief, cried over the next two hours with me by her side. Yet it bothered me that we had disappointed our friends. After dinner, I called to say that we would still be coming, late, and Lisa wiped the tears from her eyes as we grabbed our coats.

Twenty years later I’m still haunted by the fact that I felt more urgency to please this family than to care for the needs of my grieving wife. But this was part of the learning.Eventually we learned how to say yes and no– and for the right reasons. We developed a system for letting people know when we could accept visitors—a green card on the door meant it was okay to ring the bell; a red one meant we needed time alone.

For me, self-awareness and realism about sustainability has come with time, by trial and error, and with some pain.

While it’s inspiring to see so many in our generation taking risks and making radical new choices to do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly, a surprising number of our experiments are short-lived.

I believe there are lessons we simply can’t learn about life in God’s kingdom by being cautious. We must throw ourselves into challenging and overwhelming situations that take us beyond ourselves. But once we’ve gone over the edge, we have to learn how to fly by finding balance and flow– spiritually, physically, emotionally, financially and relationally. Our faith-inspired activism has to grow into a substantive and sustaining rhythm of life that engages struggle without becoming jaded or embittered.

If we aren’t careful, the call of justice can become as dualistic and disintegrative as the pursuit of the American dream. We are being invited into the shalom of the kingdom of love that promises restoration and at every level of our existence. For me, self-awareness and realism about sustainability has come with time, by trial and error, and with some pain.

In my twenties I was hardly aware of how the mind, body and soul are connected. Flush with the urgency of the work, I would often skip meals or try make do with the KoolAid and cookies we served at our programs. The combination of bad nutrition and lack of sleep made me volatile and susceptible to my most base instincts for comfort and escape.

A friend of mine recently told me, “I’ve noticed that a lot of us activist Christians, including me, are overweight and physically unhealthy. I think this is a poor testimony to our shared values, like simplicity.” Over the past six months he and a small group of other leaders have each lost a significant amount of weight. A healthy diet, regular exercise, and proper sleep can do a lot to keep us motivated and energized for the work we do – and it’s so important to model good practices for the people in struggle that we live and work among.

After moving to San Francisco’s Mission District, I once took philosopher Dallas Willard on a tour of our neighborhood, explaining the challenges of living in a place that was characterized by violence and culture clash. He abruptly turned to me and said, “If I lived in this neighborhood I would limit myself to 34-36 hours of work a week. Your soul will need extra rest to be sustained here.” It’s easy to become conditioned to the place where you live and not realize the subtle effect that is has on your soul. It is tempting to let the subjective view from skid row or the cul de sac skew our perceptions of reality. Not everyone is in crisis or struggle just as not everyone who is wealthy is selfish or comfortable. To be healthy, we probably need a variety of relationships, both in and out of the neighborhoods we live in.

Each year in the extended community of which I am part, we take time to reflect on the rhythms and patterns we each need in our lives to sustain us. First, we spend some time examining how we are directing our life energy, by examining how each one of us is seeking God’s greater wholeness in the following areas: how I live in my body; what I think about and the habits of my mind; how I manage my feelings, sense of identity, and the stresses in my life; where I spend my time and resources; and how I show up in my relationships. From our responses to these questions we each set goals about our next steps towards wholeness in each area.

Second, we create or review a personal rule of life by reflecting on the question, “What are the daily, weekly, and seasonal habits and practices I need to help me keep momentum in my formation as a holistic disciple of Jesus? These might include silence and solitude, Sabbath-keeping, time in nature, exercise, sleep, time away with family and friends, or other nurturing commitments.

All of us must find those disciplines and practices, those rhythms and patterns in our life, through which we are able to walk the path towards what Dorothy Day described as “the long loneliness” of obedience. It is a path which, God willing, we will be walking for many years.

Repost of ReIMAGINE POEM

Posted: March 16 2011

Here’s a repost of my ReIMAGINE poem from my book SOUL GRAFFITI. I’ve been performing it for a long time, but it still seems to connect with a lot of people.

In my mind’s

I am flying high across the sky

Swooping in and out and dropping low,

Touching the ground of city streets

Like a spirit of God hovering over primordial waters

Of lump clay earth.

I am waking up

I am daring to dream again

I hear the voice

I hear the voice

I hear the voice over the waters saying to you and to me:

“I am here.

The hidden whisper of love.

That beautiful and terrible story you hunger to hear.

Be still!

Be still sacred scared child.

Awake!

Awake from your stubborn numb slumber

Open those sleepy eyes to my morning daylight

It will not burn away any good it finds in that hungry cracked heart.

ReIMAGINE!

Life with me

Taste and see the splendor of

my blooming spring garden rest weary home

Weep while you can.

While you still feel

While the pain is still real

While my love still heals’

ReIMAGINE!

Nonfiction in full color

Humanity and divinity live in concert together.

The “I” and the “we” making sweet synergy.

It’s the song we all long to hear

Let the aria resound, may the earth shake with the reverberation of your ancient apocalyptic prodigious creativity.

ReIMAGINE! All our voices in harmony with yours, Lord.

Samba, Romba, Rhimba

Afro-Cuban beats

Italian Opera

Salsa Latina

Tai-Chi Mariachi

Three Chord Punk Rock bleats and the symphony

The Trance, Trip Hop, Hip Hop, Do wop, Swing

Big Band Bleeding Heart Acoustic Folk Middle Eastern Dirge

Zeideco, Howling Blues and the Salvation songs of plantation slave spirituals singing:

“We shall overcome.” “We shall overcome.”

ReIMAGINE!

A spiral, whirling miracle, of you and me and us swept up in the creator’s remaking.

ReIMAGINE!

Creator Recreate

Here. Now. Instigate.

A revolution of faith, hope and love.