Remembering Grandpa Onas Cudley Scandrette

Filed under:Family, SOUL GRAFFITI BOOK — posted by Mark on February 14, 2007 @ 2:27 am

Onas with Camera and MG.gif Its been just over two years since my grandfather, Dr. Onas Cudley Scandrette died at 91 years old. My cousin, Chunky Blood, has written me recently inquiring about things I might remember about grandpa. Sometime knowing more about where we come from helps us makes sense of who we are becoming. I still think of my grandfather alot– as a signpost fading into the past about where I come from and where my destiny lies. I remember being at the hospital just after he died. I was sitting in a chair beside the bed where his body was beginning to stiffen– his mouth still open. Next to him was my dad on the phone making funeral arrangements. I could hear my sons running around out in the hall. That moment gave me an enduring picture of the cycle of life– where I have been– the child out in the hall, where I am, and where I am headed: middle age, older adulthood and mortality.
I found a place to write offer a tribute to him in SOUL GRAFFITI:

“My other grandfather, Onas Cudley Scandrette, could not have been more different than Grandpa Ray Clow. He and my grandmother Mary lived in a college town near Chicago where my grandfather was a professor of psychology. Their home, instead of being decorated with church craft bazaar knick-knacks, knitted Kleenex box cozies, and dinosaur bones, was furnished with 1950s modern furniture, shelves of art and psychology books, and walls hung with black and white art prints and paintings—including signed lithographs by Marc Chagall, Pablo Picasso, and Thomas Hart Benton.
Grandpa Onas looked the part of an eccentric college professor, wearing thick glasses, suit jackets, and a derby hat as he drove his red MG convertible through campus. He dabbled in mountaineering, experimented with Pop Art, and was an accomplished photographer who corresponded with Ansel Adams. In his basement there was a dark room where he perfected experimental print techniques that he documented for publication in photographic society journals. I rarely saw my grandfather without an SLR camera around his neck.
He also wrote down and told stories about his childhood experiences and wrote romantic and philosophical poetry exploring the human psyche. Academically and personally Grandpa Onas was interested in the intersection of faith and humanity—particularly the psychological dimensions of human spirituality. He was a lifelong fan of the Hebrew Psalms because of their resonance with subjective human moods and motivations. Raised in a religious tradition that regarded the arts and culture as “worldly” and the cravings of the body as shameful, he sought to find God in the pleasures of human creativity.
Always a bit of a hipster, Grandpa Onas wore the latest running shoes, was the first person I knew to own a personal computer, and gave me recommendations about his favorite rock music. For birthdays and Christmas he and my grandmother gave me art supplies and books. They took me to museums and galleries where I recall seeing Andy Warhol’s car crash sculptures, the photographs of Robert Mapplethorpe, and the assemblage sculptures of horses by Deborah Butterfield. From Grandpa Onas I learned to explore the goodness and beauty of God revealed in humanity—through the arts, philosophy, literature, history, and the study of cultures.

Afghan for Afghanistan

Filed under:Family — posted by Mark on February 11, 2007 @ 7:21 am

IMG_5177.JPG On Thursday afternoons Lisa leads “knitting club” at our house with about 10 kids. Last week our kids and their friends finished knitting an afghan to send to Afghanistan.

YOSEMITE

Filed under:Family, Friends — posted by Mark on January 30, 2007 @ 1:24 pm

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Last weekend my son Noah and I went with my friend Charley Scandlyn to Yosemite for four days. Charley was officiating a wedding and we got to tag along and enjoy the solitude of the Valley. I had always wanted to see Yosemite in the winter and it was spectacular! Noah and I had a great time hiking and walking on top of frozen lakes and streams. As a special bonus we were invited to the wedding and to the wedding feast at the fabulous Ahwahnee.

In Florida for a few days.

Filed under:Family — posted by Mark on January 4, 2007 @ 2:16 pm

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On Tuesday night I flew to Tampa to be with some friends and colleagues for a few days. We are staying at a great house on the beach having good conversation and dreaming together about good work to do together in the future. Overnight on the plane I read the Starfish and the Spider– on recommendation from Linda Bergquist– and was reminded of the power of loose associations and volunteer involvement.

WINTER WONDERLAND– HAPPY HOLIDAYS FROM THE SCANDRETTE’S

Filed under:Family — posted by Mark on December 25, 2006 @ 8:56 pm

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Christmas Eve

Filed under:Family — posted by Mark on @ 1:16 am

1132204842Victrola.jpgYesterday we drove up to the mountains to go sledding in the snow. When we lived in Northern Minnesota I got all the snow and cold I needed for the rest of my life– and begrudgingly went along with the Scandrette/Laird tribe. But it was great and the mountains were beautiful. On the way home we stopped at Victrola Cafe in Capitol Hill– for a great cup of coffee. Thanks to Aurora for recommending this place. It was very much like Ritual Cafe back home. Earlier in the day Isaiah and I went out on a date and visited Caffe Ladro in Fremont and did some shopping at the Fremont Sunday Market. Isaiah likes to look at the Sunday Newspaper funnies.

Mark’s Top Ten List for 2006

Filed under:Family — posted by Mark on @ 12:00 am

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1. Friday night dates with Lisa at our favorite Italian restaurant or French Cafe.
2. Completing “Bay to Breakers” with the guys from “running club.”
3. Working with a great team of people who give energy to ReIMAGINE.
4. Feasting and making a life with SEVEN, our new faith community.
5. Sabbath Retreats at the Dixon’s cabin.
6. Fifteen mile walks through the city with Noah and Isaiah.
7. Playing games at home for “Dad and kid night.”
8. Finishing my first full-length book project, SOUL GRAFFITI.
9. Traveling to Montreal to train & teach.
10. A sense of mystery and curiosity about how God is leading, guiding and providing for our family.

We are grateful for so many friends and companions on the journey to do justice, love mercy and walk humbly with our creator. MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY NEW YEAR!
—Mark & Lisa, Hailey, Noah & Isaiah

Cafe Vivace

Filed under:Family — posted by Mark on December 22, 2006 @ 10:57 pm

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While in Seattle I’ve been in search of the best coffee. Today we went to Cafe Vivace. I had espresso and Lisa had a macchiato. It was really quite fabulous. I think from now on I might only drink espresso.

Merry Christmas from the Scandrette’s

Filed under:Family — posted by Mark on December 7, 2006 @ 12:41 pm

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